Collective Wisdom
Leadership Circle
Tackling big challenges and wishes together
Leadership doesn't have to look like this. . .
Leadership can be lonely... it doesn't have to be. Each year, I hold space for one circle of eight exceptional, passionate, visionary leaders. We will sustain you, celebrate your wins, and fail forward with you so that you can thrive as a leader, not just survive.
"This group has provided so much support to believe in myself and the opportunity to offer support to others struggling with the same issues I have been struggling with. Many of the lessons will be forever lessons."
~ Sara Sundquist, Coordinator, Shasta County Public Health
Let’s make sure this leadership circle is for you
Are you someone who…
Considers your over-achieverism and perfectionism to be both a blessing and a curse.
Is ambitious, passionate, and driven, but struggles to do the important when the urgent is pressing.
Has an exciting, important, daunting professional challenge or wish for 2024. (Perhaps a new role, a new project, raise $1M, finally create work-life balance… If it’s fuzzy, apply for a complmentary call with me and we’ll explore together.)
Considers yourself a servant leader, but tends to give away time and energy to others, leaving not enough for yourself.
Is confident in some leadership areas or settings, but not all, or not when stressed.
Is a mid-career professional actively leading a team or supporting other leaders, but the weight of responsibility sometimes feels heavy and overwhelming.
Whole-heartedly embrace new experiences and being lovingly challenged.
If this sounds like you, then you're in the right place!
Welcome!
VISION
Live into your purpose and calling. Clarify your values. Make progress towards a professional goal that matters most to you
SKILLS
Learn the skills required for exceptional servant leadership such as navigating risk, uncertainty, change, difficult conversations, and conflict.
STRATEGY
Align your goals with strategy and action so that they become reality. Identify and harness the greatest strengths of everyone on your team so that your organization can do shining, impossible things.
CONFIDENCE
Overcome the inner critics and monsters that stand in your way. Find your voice so that you can inspire and motivate your team. With confidence you can better influence your boss, your board, and those you serve.
CAPACITY
You can't pour from an empty cup. Create healthy boundaries. Develop stress resilience. Manage your energy, not your time. With capacity comes inner peace and spaciousness.
SUPPORT
With a mastermind group at your back, leadership doesn't have to feel lonely. Here, you will be valued, seen, supported, and embraced for the messy miracle of a human you are.
What Members Gain
Amy Frydenlund - Director of Instruction
I was overwhelmed and stressed, having a hard time making decisions, even the simplest ones, like where to go for a walk. You create a space that is inviting and rich and I trust your skillful lead. Working with (you) Irene has given me myself... It's not that you or the class content has all of the answers, it's more that it opens the doors and window and gates to better find your own answers. This work with Irene, made it feel easier to find and be me - wonderful and powerful, flawed and unique, and complete.
~ Kara Tupy, K-8 Director
I was at a point in my career where I honestly didn't know if I was going to be able to keep on. I was more than burned out. I was disillusioned and felt trapped. When I met with Irene for the first time, I felt an instant connection with her generous, authentic way of being. She brings together three very powerful things. First, she has that special gift of being able to help you find answers to your own questions; recognizing the wisdom within each individual. She has a knack for curating resources that allow you to reach your goals, and go deeper, faster. And she's an incredible ally. All of this combined to open up an avenue for me to begin dreaming again.
~ Jen Shyu, Guggenheim Fellow and Doris Duke Artist
Because my work is my passion as well (as an artist), I found it difficult to manage my time and energy not only in my personal art making but also the organization I run that empowers other artists. After each meeting with you Irene, and the rest of the group, my co-founder and I always had so many ideas, ranging from the structure of our own meetings with our artists, how to engage on Zoom and online, to bigger, more philosophical ideas. Irene, you have been such a supportive and incredible inspiration and leader, and I am just so impressed with how productive and nourishing the program has been with you.
~ Amy Toll, Literacy Leader
It has been almost 6 months since I started working with Irene, and truth be told it was the best decision I have ever made. Not only have I grown as a professional, but I’ve also grown in my personal life as well. Now I know my worth, I feel like could lead an army of teachers to find their own passions. This has been a life-changing experience that I wish I could recommend for every leader that feels insecure, that feels like they are an imposter, this program is for you!
The Nitty Gritty
This curated group of four to eight experienced leaders will meet for 90 minutes on Zoom every other week for six months. The first month is more intensive (with three meetings instead of two) in order to clarify our purpose, goals, vision, and what's getting in the way. After that, the bulk of the time will be devoted to learning from one another's collective wisdom.
What's collective wisdom? Glad you asked!
Each session begins with a brief centering practice followed by a short leadership skill-building lesson. Centering practices grow stress resilience and rewire our nervous systems over time. Leadership-skill building lessons add practical tools and concepts to your toolbox drawn from research-backed best practices.
Then, one by one, we'll check in and share whatever wish or challenge is most present right now, and whether or not additional wisdom would help. (Sometimes, sharing aloud is enough.) Those who want support receive coaching in the moment or wisdom from the group.
We've tackled issues including:
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Stepping into a new role
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Cultivating donor relationships
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Launching a charter school/new business/new department
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Giving and receiving feedback
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Speaking with confidence in any room
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Juggling an overwhelming to do list
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Getting a team to row together towards a common goal
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Managing difficult employees
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Managing difficult bosses
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Carving out time for creativity, loved ones, and self-care
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Word-smithing a mission statement or marketing material
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Managing emotions personally and professionally
There’s hundreds of years of professional and personal experience in the room. What couldn’t we solve if we put our brilliant minds together? That’s collective wisdom.
In addition, you'll receive a welcome gift, TWO private coaching sessions, free books, office hours, guest speakers, and a really special closing session.
This is a curated, small group program for up to eight exceptional leaders. Those enrolled in Collective Wisdom can add on six extra private coaching sessions (that's in addition to the two private sessions already included) to be used anytime in 2024 for a rate well below what I charge my one-on-one clients.
We meet on Zoom 90 minutes every other week, for a total of 6 months. Since everyone is a busy leader, our meeting times will be determined based on the schedules of those selected to be in the group. Typically, meeting times will be early morning or late afternoon Pacific Time so the majority of the work day is free to support your organization and your team.
Think of it as your very own think tank of powerful leaders. Irene meticulously curates the group so that everyone shares common challenges and experiences. As each member moves toward their big challenge or wish, the collective wisdom in the group is there for you to draw upon. Irene might coach an individual or ask everyone in the group to offer their best advice. If there's an obvious theme across individuals, Irene will facilitate a group discussion. Always, the goal is to help one another overcome obstacles, grow ourselves as leaders, support our teams, and build our dreams.